Friday, May 29, 2020

Weirdest Last Day of School Ever

During the last week of school, we had a schedule to drive through the elementary school garage and the middle school garage to pick up the kids things. The teachers had packed up their desks and lockers and there were different stations in the garage. A station to pick up a bag with the kids locker and desk thing. A station to drop off library books, a station to pick up art portfolios, etc. We never got out of our car. It was pretty organized and anti-climatic.

The teachers also tried to provide opportunities to say good-bye to the kids. Mrs. Conner and Mrs. Gaule came by the house with signs to say good-bye to Cadie. Ranger was able to say good-bye to Mrs. Larkin in the car pool line at the school. I don't think Colton was able to say good-bye to Mrs. Everett, but we emailed with her and she said that she missed Colton very much and that he was a "joy" to have in her class this past year.

I made the kids take a "last day of school" picture in the front yard which they thought was strange. We then wrapped up the evening with a neighborhood bounce house and movie night in the backyard. So long weird 2020 school year!








Monday, April 27, 2020

Broken Bow, Oklahoma

We needed a change of scenery and Broken Bow, Oklamhoma delivered! We rented a cabin on VRBO, invited Joy along, convinced DD and Big John to come, rented an SUV on the day of departure since the Pilot brakes gave out the night before, packed up almost everything we owned, and headed north. We weren't quite sure what to expect, and it was wonderful. We didn't want to leave!

It was only about a 3 hour drive, the cabin was cozy and comfortable, Big John grilled delicious food every evening, and we wrapped up the nights around the camp fire with smores. The good folks of Broken Bow are NOT at all worried about COVID. Restaurants - open. Mini golf - open. Ice cream parlor - open. Toilet paper and hand sanitizer - available (we stocked up). State Park - open. It felt like a different world!

We loved doing mini-golf, taking a hike in the state park, having a picnic by a beautiful stream and then wading through the water (I laughed so hard at Colton the lizard laying on a rock in the sun in the middle of the stream), singing around the campfire (thank you to Joy and her guitar), watching Ranger suffer through a Hot Cheetos challenge, and seeing our friends who went to Broken Bow too! Our friends and neighbors also rented a cabin once we decided we were going to make the trek. Ranger ended up spending the night at their cabin and then they invited him to stay longer with them! We all came back on Sunday, but Ranger hung out with his friend Hudson in Broken Bow until Tuesday.

Thank you Broken Bow for being just what we needed! We'll be back!


















Monday, April 13, 2020

COVID and Quarantine and Easter

Well, the world has been changed, and has maybe gone a bit mad. I had my Leadership Program at work March 9-13 and things degraded throughout the week. Grant and the kids and I were scheduled to go to Cozumel for Spring Break March 16-20, but we cancelled the trip on March 12 because we decided it wasn't the best decision to be outside the country. We made the right call. Things deteriorated at an alarming rate with Dallas ordering Shelter-in-Place on March 22. International travel was essentially stopped, crazy people were hording the strangest things (toilet paper) that caused additional anxiety and shortages, the kids did not go back to school after Spring Break, and people essentially haven't left their houses. It is hard to keep track of the daily changing information, guidelines, and regulations.

The kids started homeschool on March 30. It has been a bit of a joke. We scrambled and bought Colton a laptop from a friend of mine at work (Thank you Paul!). Jack Ranger is using the kids computer, and I move my computer every week up to Cadie's room so she can use it during the week. The beginning of homeschool was really stressful because we were trying to figure out all the sites and logins for the kids, our Wi-Fi at home kept getting maxed out, Joy had moved in to my parents house and she was trying to figure out her school, and I was getting adjusted to working at home too. After the first week of stress, we decided to take it less seriously and make it a "best effort." Cadie is diligent, not sure if Ranger really does much, and Colton only does what Joy sits down beside him and makes him do. Colton has gotten better at reading and Grant has taught the kids some good life skills like jump-starting a car, changing a car tire, and assembling furniture. Besides what Grant and life are teaching the kids, I am not sure they are learning much, but I am ok with that for now.

The kids are being SUPER creative and they have been amazing at entertaining themselves. Painting, crafts, catching critters, building forts, so many legos, Cadie's new bookmark line, letters to friends, dressing up, climbing up things - including our house, having picnics, reading the funnies, staying up late watching movies in the backyard, sleeping in... One evening I called upstairs and asked them to come get in the car so we could go through a drivethrough and get some hamburgers. They called down that they were "busy"! What the heck?! There is literally NOTHING going on. But, they were busy with string and balloons and straws and duct tape making some type of rocket designed to fly across the playroom. They are pretty much busy most of the time.

I love working from home and being with the family more. I have had 2-3 days that just went wrong. Those days I was anxious from all the unknowns, not feeling equipping to set expectations with the kids, tired, and fearful. Grant has had 2-3 days of the same. But, other than that we are so thankful that this is all in God's control and we are trying to make the most of more time together. My family really is AMAZING and this time with them has made me even more thankful for Grant and each of the little people we have the privilege of raising and loving.

Besides my family, things I am thankful for right now are the Spring weather, creativity of my kids, my sunroom office, our backyard, Joy living so close, Hello Fresh, online church, additional sleep, sweet neighbors looking after each other, everyone walking outside and biking, patient teachers, my job and the Leadership at Southwest, restaurants that have stayed open for to-go orders (we typically have Dive and Sonny Bryan's once a week), and Disney+.





















Sunday, March 8, 2020

Cadie and Cotillion

Cadie despised Cotillion as much as ever, but that didn't stop her from looking as beautiful as ever for the final party with parents. Her hair was wavy from Courtney's braid in Hawaii and Cadie looked tall and tan and way too beautiful. It might have also helped that there was a young man that had asked her to dance a few times throughout Cotillion that Cadie thought was nice looking.





Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Dad & Cadie Play Hooky in Hawaii

CJ has been asking Grant to make a trip to Hawaii for a while so that he could help her with projects at their new house. I totally get that because there is no one better at projects than Grant. Grant said he did lots of electric work including new light fixtures inside and outside, running power to their kitchen island, and replacing sockets and plugs. Grant would get up super early to do his work and then do projects in the afternoon and evening.

Cadie was conflicted at first about missing school, but she is SO glad she went. She loved seeing CJ, getting to know Edie better, and eating lots of shaved ice. The night snorkel with the manta rays was Cadie and Grant's favorite activity. Grant said Cadie was a pro traveler and the time change didn't even seem to bother her.

Yay for free trips to Hawaii! They were able to non-rev and then stay with CJ and Edie. I think the main expense was the shaved ice.