Our time together in Boise was incredibly special. We celebrated Aunt Kathy's life during a beautiful evening together hosted by Alan and Shanna at a local coffee shop that is owned by their friends. We connected with extended family including Brad and Nancy. Grandma was thrilled to have us all in town. The Heritage House was a unique historic central hub and a great spot for an epic evening of hide and seek with the cousins. We got to meet Foster for the first time ever. He is SO chute and chill.
We spent a fun day at a local water park. Thank you Nina and Papa for the cabana! Eric brought bikes and we had a fun afternoon at a local bike park. Colton LOVED it. He will be signing up for the HP Scots Cycling team in the Fall, for sure. We had an outing to top golf, and we laughed a lot playing Tellestrations. Alan, Shanna and the girls were great local hosts and the weather was lovely.
While it felt bittersweet to not have Aunt Kathy with us, we had the opportunity to look through some of her memorabilia and we found some treasures. I found a letter she had written to Grant and I before we even got married. It was also healing to be together.
I read this letter at the event in her honor that I mailed to her right after her diagnosis. Aunt Kathy, we love you!
Aunt Kathy – Feb. 2026
As you start this next journey, I wanted to let you know how much you mean to me. I think you know, but it never hurts to say the words anyway.
You have always been a safe place for me, and so many others. You make me feel loved, comfortable, and like my voice matters. I love you so much and am grateful for all the ways you have shaped me.
Your hospitality is inspiring. You love plants, animals, and people. You have been a safety net, letting people stay in your home until they were ready to venture back out into the world. It meant so much to me when you let me, my friend Nicole, and my friend Kit from high school stay with you for our 20th High School reunion. You didn’t even know my friends Nicole or Kit, but I knew you would make them feel welcomed in your home. The three of us have texted many times about how much that small trip meant to us in the midst of our busy lives. We all three crashed in the king bed in your guest room and even though we had only 24 hours together, it was a very special time for us to reconnect.
You have also welcomed my daughter into your home and into your heart. Thank you for investing so much time in Cadie over the years. She loves you immensely. I know she cherishes her memories of time at your house, visiting Horton and the farm, spending time with family, exploring Kansas City, shopping, reading books, and watching TV together. A place that is so meaningful to me and full of memories, Kansas City, is also meaningful and full of memories for her. That would not have been possible without you.
I have so many happy
times that include you, your generosity, and your help. A few that come to mind
are:
· - Birthday
sleepovers and shopping trips starting as early as I can remember. I remember
being in your apartment, you staying at our Slater house, your first house with
all the stairs, and of course, the Albervan house. I remember spending so much
time thinking about places I wanted to go with you during our special birthday
time together.
· - Horton
and the farm will always include your presence for me. You and grandpa singing
at church, sitting on the porch talking, or cooking up big meals for family
July 4th celebrations. I loved the farm. The time I spent there with
you and our family influences the life Grant and I are building for our family.
· - So
many times you helped celebrate family milestones. Bethany’s baby shower at
your house is a wonderful memory. I have pictures of you, baby Cadie, me, CJ,
and Bethany as we celebrated Samuel coming into the world. You worked so hard
to make everything special, and it was perfect. I also loved the bridal brunch
you hosted for me and my bridesmaid the day before Grant and I got married. We
sat around your dining room table and it was so beautiful and special.
· - I loved our day together in Dallas when we took a trip, just you and me, to CRC farm. We talked the whole way there and back and I loved showing you all the things that Grant and I are creating to build a legacy for our family.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Your love for Alan, Shanna, Harriet and Della is beautiful. Your resilience and work-ethic is incredible. And your faith is grounding.
"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1
You will be in my
thoughts and prayers daily.
Thank you for being YOU!
I love you always,
Erin
















































